Procrastination By Way of Distractions

Hmmm.
I'm procrastinating packing.
I love traveling, and I am so excited to go visit my friends, but I hate packing.
I'm a good packer...I pack quickly and not too heavily.
I have it down to a science because I seem to do it so often.
But I still don't like it.

Maybe it is because it is one of those tasks that I find trivial?
Maybe it is because I hate trying to decide what I will need and what I won't need and then make distinctions and separations?
Maybe it is because there are a million other things I'd rather do or think about than pack.
No matter, I don't like it. 

Tonight, I'm avoiding packing by being distracted by my thoughts. 
This is not hard for me to do, by the way.

Tonight the thoughts are deeply seeded in something I consistently feel confused about.
Relationships.

I have had my share of them.  I have seen others go through their shares of them.  I have observed just about every kind of typical relationship there is, and I have evene been a part of some of them. 
But no matter what I see, or learn, or know, there are a few things I just can't understand about them.

1) Why do so many women find so many reasons to nit-pick and discard a perfectly good man?
2) Why do those same women seem to be the most attractive to all types of good men?
3) Why do creepy guys seem to seek out the nice women so often?
4) Why do nice women always seem to be ignored and overlooked by the nice men?
5) Why is fakeness so attractive? Why is honesty so repelling?

I could probably make this list about 4 billion times longer, but I will spare you all (all 2 of you who read this). Someday, maybe, the universe may align and I will get some real answers to these ridiculously necessary questions, but for now, it's the way of the world.

Until next time...